LB's favorite zines!

Feb. 28th, 2026 05:53 pm
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Mori: [personal profile] witchpoetdreamer asked us about a list of our favorite zines. FOOLISH FOOL HAS ACTIVATED MY TRAP!

For this post, we are using "zine" here to mean "a floppy booklet (lacking a spine) that is either self- or small-published, and also NOT from an academic journal NOR just a comic." It can have comics IN it, or mash-up image and text in other, more experimental ways (such as the classic cut-and-paste style of zine), but it can't be primarily comics or we will be here for all eternity.

HERE WE GO! ALL ABOARD THE ZINE MACHINE, Y'ALL!

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Thanks to [personal profile] otter for sharing this video the other day: Emotional Neglect: Healing from the Hidden Trauma of What Didn't Happen

I got around to watching it and it hit me so hard I needed to write this huge long thing about it. It's mostly transcript of the parts of the video that I wanted to make a note of, because it's not very accessible to me otherwise. But my thoughts are sprinkled around the block quotes of course.

Emotional Neglect )

Emotions Draw Our Attention to What Matters to Us )

Shame, and Phobia of Inner Experiences )

Existential Loneliness )

Unconscious Self-Abandonment )

Sensitivity to Rejection )

Using Emotions to Connect Your Inner World to the Outer World )

Ordinary days

Feb. 28th, 2026 11:59 pm
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I started getting a migraine halfway through lift club this morning.

I ignored it of course -- just the aura, at that point -- knowing that I'd have a while before it got, y'know, debilitating.

I enjoyed the rest of the exercises. I did nearly fall both at the beginning and the end of the escalator I took to get from the tram to the train, oops. But also I got home fine, via B&M for medicinal snacks -- mostly sugar, which I often crave during migraines, but also one particular 59p instant ramen thing that I suddenly needed, and enjoyed very much for my lunch.

It was that rare rough day for the whole house: D's IBS was playing up and he had to make his brain work on paperwork so much this afternoon that when he finally emerged I wondered if migraines were contagious (luckily he perked up a little after eating something). V slept through all their alarms and so has been off-kilter all day. I slept for four hours this afternoon and after that reached the point where I felt okay unless I tried to move or even think too hard.

Then we watched a Starfleet Academy episode and as soon as Sam mentioned Our Town I was like ...you come to me, on the day of my migraine, and now I'm gonna have to cry? (Crying is fine but a physically unenjoyable experience for me at the best of times. Which, we've established, today is not.) (I got a tear in my eye, but even that was only at the very end.)

Like I've said here, Our Town is largely responsible for why I write almost every day here. "I can't look at everything hard enough" fucking haunts me (of course we heard that line in the episode), and it's important to me to look at things as hard as I can while they are happening.

tl;dr: People are actually bad at predicting how much they'll enjoy reading back what they've written about their lives! Writing about the ordinary experiences of your life can be even more cheering to you when you go back and read them than the extraordinary ones.

A nice reminder on an excessively ordinary day.

Good news

Feb. 27th, 2026 09:06 pm
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I slept like ass again, but if I'm gonna wake up at 6am it was nice to wake up to good news: the obvious bigots of Reform didn't win, and the more normie bigots of Labour didn't win either -- the Greens won!

I don't really care what this means for Labour or Keir Starmer -- it has never in my 20 years of living here made much tangible difference who the Prime Minister is -- I'm just glad to have an MP who might not be totally useless because I've had enough of that the last couple years! We've had a functionally useless MP in Gorton and Denton since Gwynne lost the Labour whip and his ministerial post but kept voting along with Labour anyway. Worst of both worlds: he couldn't really advocate for us any more but still voted like he would've before. Not that he was much use as public health minister: my hopes were high when he first got the position, especially as he was open about his Long Covid (which I think ended up being why he had to resign on health grounds), but he was a real disappointment to people I know who have ME or LC who'd also expected him to help, and he wasn't interested in advocating for clean air in public places or anything that would help with the ongoing pandemic, and my attempt to explain to him the public health implications of transphobia-as-policy (like the totally-predictable spike in teen suicides) didn't get anywhere either.

And more widely, of course, this is making some people feel more hopeful than we have in a long time. My queer and community-defense group chats were full of relief, congratulations to the volunteers we know who knocked on doors and did other thankless work for this (in the rain! even for Manchester it's been rainy lately), and a little bit of giddy meme-making.

There's all kinds of speculation now on what this means for the upcoming local elections in England (and devolved government elections in both Wales and Scotland, but they get to have nationalistic parties to vote for there too), as well as for Labour and Reform and so on.

But for now, there's a lot of hope in a lot of people who didn't have much (I caught a link to this video and watched it before I realized it's Owen Jones, heh), and that is a great gift.

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Word Count: 16550

Writing: I tried to do some drabbling with the LOVE prompts. I did not update my soap opera as often as I'd desired.

Reading: 8 books. All audiobooks! I do have a physical TBR pile, but I haven't made a dent in it. The book for the DW book club (https://bookclub-dw.dreamwidth.org) is The Hollow Places by T. Kingfisher is part of it.

FYI, I am going to do the 7 Days, 7 Covers challenge in March. This is posting a photo of a book I own every day for 7 days without caption.

Crafting: I did 11 Valentines and a Chinese New Year card and a sympathy card. I did 2 spreads, for Valentine's and Chinese New Year. I tried to build a pinball machine from a kit with Minisculus but we ended up with a missing piece. I ordered a replacement from the company but it hasn't arrived yet. Also I am working on a cross stitch project, mostly on Mondays while I am waiting for my Indian lady to finish physical therapy.

Health & Fitness: I am starting a new weight loss program (at the end of the month). I did 16 sessions of Yoga with Adriene. I am trying to give up sweets for Lent but (alas) the Girl Scouts outside the library today were my downfall! Too tempting.

Personal: Survived the ups and downs of work. Air force guy has made an AMAZING recovery. They changed his Parkinson's meds and after about a week, he's a new man. Really, I don't recognize him. Talking, walking, eating. I really thought he was dying week before last, he couldn't stand, needed two of us to hold him up, but now, WOW. He and his family are moving in March out of my radius so I will lose him as a client but, really, if he continues this way, he won't need a helper. So getting the right meds at the right dosage can save your life (and your quality of life). I have seen it in action this week.

Spirituality: I don't talk about this aspect of my life, but after meditating for 30 minutes every morning for 24 years, I added a 30 minute evening meditation. It's been a challenge and I still have a long way to go on the quality of the meditation but it's a step on the spiritual journey.

All in all, February was short but interesting month, I think.

On y va!

Same as it ever was...

Feb. 28th, 2026 06:52 pm
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Saturday. The almost-full moon is casting tree-shadows over the snow in the Long Back Yard.

I wrote new words today! And did actual Brain Work on the WIP. And changed the bed, and did a load of laundry, and one's duty the cats; made lunch and was able to eat it, after.

Yes, we have reached the part of the whole pain thing where -- POOF! All gone. Just joking. You may now carry on with your life until I decide to randomly take five freaking days and fill them with pain and despair.

Sigh.

The cats were very happy that I joined them in Steve's office to work today. It really is the preferred space for serious endeavors, though the comfy chair in my office is, of course, very nice.

I made the Executive Decision to join Cook Unity, and have ordered in four meals, which will be delivered on Friday. This means I am guaranteed to have four (hopefully) good meals to eat, and will take the whole Cooking Angst off of my Angst Plate, which is currently overfull with Deadline Angst. I'm viewing this as a short-term thing to lower the overall anxiety in the household. Since they say I can cancel or put it on hold at my discretion, as soon as the book's turned in, I'll be doing that. Yes, I need Staff. Also, probably, a keeper.

Looking forward to next week -- we have Rookie's second birthday on Monday, March 2. All of Tuesday is reserved for errands, with needlework in the evening. Wednesday, Thursday, and most of Friday I am Free to Write, and on Saturday?

I'm going to a magic show.

So, I'm really, yanno, happy, that my back has decided to return to normal.

Yes, I've seen the news.

How's everybody doing?

Oh.  Here's a picture of Rook helping me make the bed.


Thoughts on things

Feb. 28th, 2026 11:31 pm
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Public

Just as with the by-election, I can't give you any one-line "hot takes" on the war in the Middle East, either. I'd be suspicious of anyone who did, to be honest. I don't intend to weep for Khamenei if he really is dead. One of the world's genuinely evil men. The children at the school, of course. Khamenei, no. It's also far too simplistic to say "Everything is the West's fault", however much you (and I) may detest Trump and Netanyahu. Constantly putting all the blame on "the West" is a lazy way of looking at it. The BBC stories of celebrations in Iranian towns tonight at the reports of Khamenei's death do seem to be genuine, not events set up for the reporter.

However, what comes next will be crucial, even if – if – the current regime falls. Remember Russia, where getting rid of the openly corrupt Yeltsin brought the country Putin. I don't know enough about Iran to be able to say what realistic outcome would be best for its people. Ideally they should be the ones to choose, but it's also unrealistic to expect the world to be in neat little frontiered boxes. It never has been. All I can be sure of is that no sensible person likes war. It is better to have peace, in the senses of non-violence, amity, concord and harmony. Can that happen? In theory, yes. Will it happen? Ay, there's the rub.

For context, I was opposed to the 2003 Iraq War from the start, at a time when the near-unanimous opposition that we all remember had not yet fully coalesced. Even as late as mid-March about a quarter of Britons supported military action even if no WMDs were found and no UN resolution were passed. "Regime change" wars often go very badly wrong. There are a few exceptions: the American invasion of Panama really did bring democracy to that country. Arguably also Tanzania's invasion of Uganda to depose Idi Amin, though there the result was simply "not as bad as Amin" instead of actively good. But we notice them because they are rare. I am highly sceptical this one will be different. But we shall see.

ETA: The people I have particular contempt for are those politicians who are now insisting that the US-led attacks are unprovoked and that sovereignty must be respected, but in January made do with platitudes about negotiations and the need for dialogue when Khamenei's regime was massacring many thousands of its own people. A mother losing her child is a terrible tragedy always, not just when a person or country you don't like is the cause.

The Mummy (1999) icons

Feb. 28th, 2026 06:40 pm
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The below icons are for [community profile] tvmovie20in20 Round 24 with The Mummy (1999).

Preview:



Nothing bad ever comes from reading a book......

Civil War Musings

Feb. 28th, 2026 03:19 pm
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At this point, I suspect that civil war in the US in inevitable, and may be the "best" of a series out truly terrible options, since if we don't have one, I fear that when our our side takes control of the US again, the politicians involved won't deliver the sort of serious consequences (long prison sentences and in some cases executions) to keep the fasc from trying again in less than a decade. Also, I remain haunted by a quote I saw on Facebook several weeks ago "When they write histories of this time, they'll say that the US civil war started on January 6, 2021", I have great difficulty saying this is incorrect.

War Again

Feb. 28th, 2026 03:14 pm
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In years past, I've said that if the US attacked Iran I'd purchase and fly an Iranian flag, but after the Iranian government killed so many protesters, I can't. Instead, we have three nations at war, the US and Israel vs Iran, and the absolute best outcome for the entire planet would be all three of the leaders of these three nations to die in the war asap.

2026 March Fan Poll

Feb. 28th, 2026 05:51 pm
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Hey everybody, it's that time again: time to vote for which stuff gets the LiberaPay/Patreon money this month!

As always, anyone can vote (please do!), but LiberaPay and Patreon patrons get double weight for their votes.  (Due to Patreon's porn purges, I really encourage you to use LiberaPay, if you get a choice.) If you want to see the blurbs for any of these works, those are here!  (You can also leave your requests there; requesting a story or essay is always free!) If you don't have a DW and so can't do the poll, that's okay; just leave your vote in the comments below; anon comments are turned on.

Which works gets the money, and thus posted this month?  YOU CHOOSE, readers!
Poll #34303 2026 March Fan Poll
Open to: Registered Users, detailed results viewable to: All, participants: 15


Did you toss LiberaPay/Patreon money my way last month?

View Answers

Yes (my votes count double)
4 (100.0%)

What writing gets posted this month?

View Answers

Infinity Smashed: Born Lucky
5 (33.3%)

Reverend Alpert: the Traveling Exorcist
1 (6.7%)

Henchwench for Hire (F/F supervillainy)
1 (6.7%)

Rutless (trans omegaverse porno)
4 (26.7%)

Kayfabe in the Coliseum (psuedo-Greco-Roman gladiator fights)
3 (20.0%)

Psychodrama and Realitymashing (essay)
12 (80.0%)

What art/comic/zine gets posted this month?

View Answers

Cult Comix (doodle strips of Cultiples BS)
2 (14.3%)

Death Watch (bony lady comic)
6 (42.9%)

Protection (one-page dark side of protector duty)
3 (21.4%)

Thrown Away
2 (14.3%)

Sneak Attack! (cutesilly Mori/Rawlin one-page comic)
8 (57.1%)

Possessions (text-only poetry zine of haunting incompetently)
5 (35.7%)

False Spring 1 [status, rowing]

Feb. 28th, 2026 05:00 pm
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When I checked the thermometer on the back porch this afternoon, it read 50°F! Everywhere on the roads, there were puddles, rivulets, slushy snow.

The current forecast is for a Sunday overnight temperature of 6°F, however, so it isn't suddenly spring.

This winter I have been noticing that my cuticles are in rough shape. Almost on cue, NPR wrote a story about nail health, with tips for improvement, including information about cuticle management. I don't know about you, but I hadn't realized that fingernails are more water-permeable than skin! The article helped me to appreciate that I probably need to do even more to keep my nails and cuticles moisturized as compared to what I've been doing to keep my hands moisturized in general. So far the general skin on my hands has been in better shape this winter compared to previous winters because I've been more consistent about applying lotion, but as I noted, that hasn't seemed to help my cuticles.

So I found a recipe for homemade cuticle oil this week and mixed up a batch this afternoon, and now hopefully that will help. My DIY blend includes sweet almond oil, jojoba oil, sunflower oil, some Vitamin E, and a small bit of lemon verbena for scent. Most of the ingredients I already had lying around from the days when I used to make my own lotion; I gave up on that lotion-making a year or two ago after finally finding premade lotions I actually like.

Meanwhile, Saturday morning was devoted to rowing. We had a pretty intense workout that involved crab walks and squats and pushups and other things, done with a teammate in a relay that included a series of 6-7 500m pieces. After the rowing, I went over to the boathouse to work on the latest of the neverending boathouse projects.

First, satisfyingly, the plaques that I glued magnets onto stuck to the boat shed's support beams successfully:
Saturday Rowing Things

This is really good because it means I can now figure out how many more rare earth magnets I'm going to need, and finish that darn project for once and for all! I had tried testing the strength of the magnets by putting the plaques onto my refrigerator, but they didn't stick to the fridge very well even after I added on a ton of magnets. So it was good to learn that it takes fewer magnets to get the plaques to stay attached to the thicker steel of the boathouse beams.

It's also time to start reassembling what we call the "bubble dock." We took it completely apart last fall so as to be able to reassemble it to spell something out, instead of having it consist of a random mosaic of black and gray pieces. Let's see if you can figure out what it now spells:
Saturday Rowing Things

Saturday Rowing Things

Saturday Rowing Things

We use this as something of an auxiliary dock to our main dock, but it takes on a particularly important role in the early spring before we get our main dock put out. This is really just the first part of reassembling it, but it's an important part because each piece is supposed to line up with its neighbors in a specific order for everything to go together correctly. Next, we'll put in the connecting pins to lock the pieces together. But it's probably best to wait until the snow under the pieces finishes melting before we try that step.

And it's going to be a couple more weeks before we actually put it out on the river.
Saturday Rowing Things

Saturday Rowing Things

This has been a long winter, and it definitely isn't over yet.
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